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SPEAK IT INTO REALITY

Words are powerful. Words create impressions, images and expectations. They build psychological connections. They influence how we think. Since thoughts determine actions, there is a powerful connection between the words we use and the results we get. I realized the words I use to think and talk about my workload, my goals, my projects and the people I worked with influences my thoughts and actions about them. So, I changed my words.

If I say I work “for” someone, I have a different vision about my work-life than if I say I work “with” them. It is the same with my staff working with, not for me. Since I started this blog, I have expressed my desire to be in a loving relationship more than the social life. However, my life has definitely changed for the better.

I am no fool. I realize that words alone will not make my dreams come true. Hard work and prayers are essential. However, I’m going to continue to put my dreams and desires out there in the universe.

MY TOP FIVE DREAMS FOR THE FUTURE

1. To be in a financial situation that allows me to do all of the fun things I want to do; like travel, shop and pamper my girl

2. Somebody to create a petition to ban the use of the vocal recorder. (Sorry T-Pain, Kanye , Lil Wayne and Chris Brown)

3. For the Eagles and the Seahawks to meet in the NFC Championship game, and the winner to become Super Bowl champions.

4. New CD’s from Maxwell, Lauryn Hill, D’Angelo, Bilal, Tribe Called Quest and Anita Baker in the next 12 months.

5. For Barack Obama to be elected and promptly give me today’s equivalent of 40 acres and a mule.

What are your top dreams?

Let’s discuss….

Vincent Slaughter is a writer from Atlanta who describes himself as grown-ass man. loving son. faithful mate. flawed. occasionally funny. southern gentleman. humble, yet cocky. gemini. sometimes selfish. forgiving, but not forgetful. thankful. optimistic. thinker. doer. believer. reader. writer. a work in progress. learner. Above all, human. His thoughts on love and relationships also featured on www.skoolboisplayground.blogspot.com.


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September 16th, 2008 at 11:15 pm SweetSis says:

1) To finish my additional nursing credential by December
2) To finally break up permanantly with my ex who never stays an ex for long
3) To lose 10 pounds
4) To laugh more
5) To read the Bible more

September 16th, 2008 at 11:19 pm lilmamma86 says:

Im down with all of them 1-5..espcecially 4..D’Angelo wit his sexy ass!

September 16th, 2008 at 11:49 pm kamalp says:

Lil Mama you too much gurl.

September 17th, 2008 at 7:37 am Tina says:

I just need $2 mil and everything else will fall into place. That’s it! Oh wait Obama to become the next President! Ok now that is it.

September 17th, 2008 at 8:25 am Jessica Hubbard says:

I gotta think about this one

September 17th, 2008 at 8:44 am nicq says:

My top 4 dreams for the future
1.) be successful
2.) be rich
3.) have a mcleron
4.) Loving family
5.) and be closer to God

September 17th, 2008 at 9:09 am margie says:

don’t hold your breath for a new lauryn cd…

September 17th, 2008 at 9:30 am stephanie says:

I agree with 1 but I would change it to pamper me, #2, #4 and #5 would be on my list for sure!

September 17th, 2008 at 9:39 am thelma says:

1) great health
2) total love of self
3) financial independence
4) world travel
5) inner peace!

September 17th, 2008 at 9:44 am culturepop says:

I’m already happy so I just need a lil more money coming in to keep it all gravy. we are blessed abundantly

September 17th, 2008 at 10:09 am BRUH MAN says:

I’m with yo # 5!

September 17th, 2008 at 10:18 am 2know2love says:

Words are definitely powerful and can make all the difference ya’ll believe that

September 17th, 2008 at 10:19 am Mr.Fantastic says:

I only have one dream…To go to Heaven!

September 17th, 2008 at 11:56 am Philip Giddings says:

world peace
loot
loot
healt
loot

September 17th, 2008 at 2:35 pm just2bee says:

speak it and it shall be!
keep putting it out there

September 17th, 2008 at 6:56 pm pmatters says:

Everyone to have a true relationship with God.
World peace
Don’t have to be rich but would like to be really comfortable and not have to worry about money
True love!

September 17th, 2008 at 7:03 pm culturepop says:

ok i changed my mind:

For DOnnie McNabb to get a superbowl ring

everlasting love
everlasting money
everlasting health
building new memories everyday

September 17th, 2008 at 7:03 pm Ashley says:

I just want to be happy!

September 18th, 2008 at 1:03 am Very Veronica says:

God gives us our dreams and when one is accomplished he gives us another. That is life and it is beautiful.

September 18th, 2008 at 4:13 am BigAaron says:

I like that thought VeryVeronica

September 18th, 2008 at 3:51 pm Lottie Markus says:

give us wisdom to make all the right choices in this life and if not may we learn from our mistakes

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