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MICHELLE’S MAN

I expected Michelle Obama’s speech Monday night at the Democratic National Convention to be an eloquent, inspiring and down to earth celebration of her husband’s ideals and goals as a presidential candidate, an American, a man, and a husband and father. Her brilliant and deeply moving address was all that and more. What caught me off guard was how Mrs. Obama’s words challenged me, personally.

As a formerly married dad standing at a personal and professional crossroads I was touched, way down deep, when Michelle Obama talked about her father – a loving man whose physical capacity was gradually stripped away by Multiple Sclerosis. It got the point where simply buttoning his shirt was a challenge. Mrs. Obama said that her dad responded to this challenge not with bitterness or self-pity but by “getting up a little earlier and working a little harder.” She talked about how he never lost his smile, his love or the joy he shared with his family. She spoke of watching him struggle across the room on two canes so that he could plant a kiss on his wife’s face.

I couldn’t stop the tears when I heard all of that. Indeed, my throat is tightening up even now as I type. If Michelle Obama’s dad could endure the pain and frustration of a debilitating ailment like MS, if he could work around his limitations and inconveniences by getting up earlier and work harder, if he could do all of that and still be the man he had always been and still raise two kids to become sterling adults then certainly I can respond to the very real challenges of my life and be at my best for myself and, more importantly, the two young daughters God has given me the privilege of parenting.

One more observation about Michelle Obama’s speech…

ABC political analyst George Stephanopoulos said Mrs. Obama’s address was designed to answer a lingering question that has troubled working class voters about Barack Obama: “Is he one of us?” Well, Michelle did a beautiful job of explaining how she and Barack come from humble beginnings and how they were raised by hard-working parents who sacrificed and set them on a path toward success and service. Of course, this is not new information. Barack and Michelle Obama have been telling us about this stuff throughout the presidential campaign and even before that. But, apparently, some folks need to be told again and again and again.

It’s misleading and deceptive for pundits keep saying that “working class” Americans are unsure about Barack. It would be more honest to say “working class white” Americans. Working class blacks and Latinos aren’t sitting around wondering if Barack is “one of us.” They heard him the first hundred times he talked (in his books, in speeches, newspaper and magazine profiles and network TV interviews) about being raised by a single mom, working as a community organizer on the South Side of Chicago, etc. So, anyone who doesn’t know who Barack Obama is at this stage of the game has simply not been paying attention. Or perhaps they’ve allowed their prejudices and loyalty to another candidate blind them to Mr. Obama’s obvious salt of the earth credentials.

I blame Hillary Clinton for much of this.

She created the rift that has fractured the Democratic Party along race and class lines by deliberately and repeatedly misinterpreting Obama’s comment about blue collar whites feeling “bitter.” She actually called him an “elitist” (which made no sense) and started reaching out to blue collar whites on the basis of class and, by inference, race. On top of that, Sen. Clinton has been acting like a sore loser ever since Obama sealed the nomination. She’s given occasional lip service to supporting her former opponent and unifying the party but she hasn’t made that a crusade. Her backing of Obama seems obligatory and her petulance is forever close to the surface.

I’m glad Sen. Clinton is using the convention to promote healing, but she’s on the late freight. If she had used the last few months to stump enthusiastically for Obama the Democratic Party wouldn’t be in the mess it is in now. There would have been a lot less talk of division going into the convention and Barack would have a stronger lead over John McCain in the polls. Hillary should have put her bruised ego and misplaced anger aside a long time ago for the good of the Party and the nation.

And the Clinton camp needs to drop its supposed anger at Hillary being passed over as Obama’s running mate. Besides, after the way she acted during the campaign did she honestly expect Obama to choose her as his veep? Please.

Thanks for listening. I’m Cameron Turner and that’s my two cents.

THINK! IT AIN’T ILLEGAL…YET!

Cameron Turner is a Los Angeles-area native whose editorials, entertainment news features and audio documentaries have appeared on national radio networks, online and in print for over 20 years.


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August 26th, 2008 at 10:04 pm SweetSis says:

Just watched Clinton. I think it was AIGHT but not enough to convince me she gives a damn about anybody but herself.
As for Michelle and her man, they took my breath away yesterday.
As for you, a sensitive man is a man after my own part. Stay connected to that part of yourself, Mr Turner.

August 26th, 2008 at 10:28 pm Ed80 says:

Boooooooooooo Hillary! I blame her too!!!!

August 26th, 2008 at 10:55 pm thelma says:

Hillary is a good actress, but any fool knows she is the ultimate BITTER chick on the block. That speech proves it. She could have said “i was wrong in what i said before- went back, thought about it and he is the bomb!” well, something like that! LOL

By the way it is so nice to hear a man say he was touched my something! I really enjoyed your message

August 26th, 2008 at 11:12 pm 2know2love says:

I’m tearing up myself Cameron. These are extraordinary times.

August 26th, 2008 at 11:42 pm culturepop says:

The “one of us” question goes way back. They been asking that one for years and even though we are all human, they can’t imagine we are just like them. Its very interesting and strange. I am truly moved by the fact that all of this historic events are taking place – and historic is always a mix of both good and bad

August 26th, 2008 at 11:46 pm buttabrown says:

Wow this was wonderful to read I have to pass this on

AND I agree a lot. I am sick of them implying that we someone love our children less, are unpatriotic or not hard working. Its a crime!

August 26th, 2008 at 11:53 pm Nubian CoCo says:

Cameron you are making so much sense. The story was a reminder that it could always be worse! We complain so much but we are obviously in decent enough health to be online! Her Dad was a great role model, and everyday hero and there are so many out there

August 26th, 2008 at 11:53 pm Diane Brown says:

I was also very moved by Michelle’s talk of her father’s resolve. That alone was inspiration enough for me.

August 27th, 2008 at 1:55 am Chatty Cathy says:

Props to Hillary. She took the bullet. Started weak. Ended strong. Did what she had to do even tho in her heart she wasn’t all the way there. Michelle was xcellent. What the hell Bill going to say I don’t know.

August 27th, 2008 at 4:03 am CeaseNYC says:

Hillary did soso but we in this mess cause of her lik you said. I ain’t with her or her husband, anybody see that fake ass tears he had going? Stop.

August 27th, 2008 at 6:16 am nicq says:

Not diggin Hilary bruh…she is a poser..she is more concerned with being the first woman president than what she could do for the country…she is just not sincere in anything she says…plus she is just a straight up hata

August 27th, 2008 at 6:47 am Mr.Fantastic says:

My dude…i hear ya on this one…i feel like if hilary couldnt earn the respect of her own husband…she damn sure aint earning America’s…lets go Mrs. Obama

August 27th, 2008 at 7:34 am Media Weasel says:

Cameron you’ve put into words how I felt on hearing her speak. She loves that man. She loves him. Isn’t that refreshing to hear in politics these days?

And yes, the story about her dad made me weep – I read it in his book but hearing her tell the story inspired me to stop getting in my own way and just to get on with things.

She will be a loving, gracious and beautiful First Lady. I can hardly wait for Obama’s inauguration. (It’s a done deal as far as I’m concerned).

Hillary’s speech? Well … we’ll see what Bill says tonight.

August 27th, 2008 at 8:52 am lilmamma86 says:

Rep it For the Ladies…Michelle is my Nicca! OKAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

August 27th, 2008 at 9:13 am K Williams says:

I’m afraid to get too excited. I think the worst is yet to come. They have something up their sleeve that could be disasterous!

August 27th, 2008 at 9:37 am Jessica Hubbard says:

I’m very touched by this blog!

August 27th, 2008 at 9:55 am Stephanie says:

I’m with you Cameron. I don’t understand how Hilary Clinton or McCain can call Obama an elitist when neither one of them has ever been anywhere close to poor or lower middle class.

August 27th, 2008 at 10:36 am Jane Kennedy says:

I’m still confused about those Hillary supporters who are angry. This is about the party! By any means we can’t allow McCain in – but if we are not smart we’ll lose one of the most winable elections ever

August 27th, 2008 at 12:14 pm Tina says:

I was teared up from the moment I saw this graceful strong lady step on the stage. It was so moving!

August 27th, 2008 at 12:17 pm Conrad Sharpe says:

I think it would be hard for anyone to walk away from a lifelong dream. Both Hillary and Bill have always had big egos. I thought her speech was a little too much ‘I’ and not enough “Barack”

August 27th, 2008 at 12:20 pm pmatters says:

Love this title cause she makes it know that Obama is her man and I love that about her. Strong black woman standing beside her man. That is what I am talking about. That is what our community and the world need to see. The truth.

August 27th, 2008 at 1:47 pm doumind says:

we should squeeze our families a little tighter

August 27th, 2008 at 3:14 pm heatmizer says:

This is so beautiful!

August 27th, 2008 at 3:17 pm heatmizer says:

and i feel you guys, hillary can’t let go but has no choice. i truly hope that everyone can get together and get behind barack in every way

August 27th, 2008 at 10:41 pm ratty says:

BILL ROCKED IT TODAY I’M SORRY

August 28th, 2008 at 12:56 am LaKeisha Powell says:

missed the speech I”ll ck it out tonight but he can’t say nothing get back on my side

August 28th, 2008 at 7:37 pm Elsa Harkins says:

OOOOOOOOO
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so so proud yall!

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