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Take It Like A Woman

Even from the other side of the world it looked ugly. Luckily neither ESPN Deportes nor CNN en Espanol kept it running on a continuous loop like I’m sure it did on their U.S. counterparts. After seeing a picture of it in a USA Today as I got off the plane in Santiago, Chile, I finally watched it online as soon as I had internet access. A WNBA brawl complete with big name players and a big name coach or 3. To make matters worse, one of the big name coaches is a rather large man (Rick Mahorn) that apparently didn’t know his own strength in the heat of the moment. I don’t want to call anybody out, but Plenette Pierson and her Detroit Shock teammates just set back women’s basketball more than they can probably fathom at this point.

Traditionally thought of as these elegant, highly skilled, and supremely conditioned athletes, WNBA players had yet to be marred by any ugly incidents yet in their 10 year history, at least not to my knowledge. I’m sure somebody had pushed and shoved at some point, because basketball can be a pretty physical game sometimes and keeping one’s cool can be a challenge. But up to this point, I can’t recall seeing highlights about a “girl-fight” in any sport. Not only was it not at all becoming, but I’m sure it will do nothing for the popularity of the sport.

Now I don’t want to sound like a cave man and appear as though I don’t think women should even be breaking a sweat as a profession, let alone get physical. That’s not it at all. I am a huge supporter of women’s athletics and often find myself defending women’s basketball, specifically whenever one of my less open minded friends wants to denounce it as a game lacking skill and excitement. As far as pure team basketball and good fundamentals, the women’s game has no equal. From a coaching perspective, I find myself instructing both my daughter AND my son to watch and learn how to do a pick and roll or something technical in a women’s game more often than I do telling them to try to glean something from a men’s professional game, wrought with higher-flying and increasingly less skilled players each year. I admire what C. Vivian Stringer has done at Rutgers and Pat Summit has done with her legendary program at Tennessee. Anytime your women’s hoop team has a bigger stadium than the men’s team and sells it out every night, you’re playing good ball. Period.

However, I really hope that this is not the supposed path toward mass appeal for women’s professional athletics. Although I don’t think she’s condoning the sistahs gettin’ their scrap on, I slightly disagree with the tone of ESPN.COM writer Jemele Hill in her article this week. I get the sense that she may be misconstrued as suggesting that there need be some equality and respect due to women in athletics for “puttin’ ‘em up.” I don’t think that is her intention, but I had to read it twice to be sure. She does make the compelling point that the pristine and squeaky clean image that the WNBA executives have created may have a slightly exaggerated fairy tale element. Can you blame them though? Apparently, they have the presence of mind to recognize that marketing is everything and when you’re trying to put out a product that folks are racing to see about as fast as they are soccer in the United States, you had better get it right the first time.

How did we get here though? I would’ve thought a brawl like the one from this game would have been unthinkable a few years ago. My sister was a great athlete, as are many of my female friends and I’ve been to their games plenty of times. Women do throw an occasional elbow just like anyone else, but it never looked like that. How did it happen that if I blinked, I might’ve assumed I was watching Artest and the boys in their melee 2 years ago? The way Ms. Pierson rolled up on Candace Parker looked a bit familiar. I hate to pull the media card again, but I’m not sure that the rapid fire images that are so prevalent on television these days aren’t at least partially to blame. I remember being in a hip-hop club a couple years ago and thinking “what is this world coming to?” as a bunch of sistahs ran to the floor shaking fists and spouting the harsh, foul mouthed lyrics of Rah Digga when the DJ cut to that. What happened to the Sista Soulja’s, Queen Latifah’s, and MC Lyte’s that didn’t take no stuff, but didn’t feel like they had to come at you like a dude to get some cred?

I am confident that I am raising my basketball playing daughter to act like she’s got some sense and have a plan B that doesn’t make her beholden to some professional franchise owner’s checkbook. Non athletic vocations are even a greater reality for talented female athletes than they are for the naïve male ones. The money is not big enough for WNBA athletes to think that they can do whatever they want like their knuckleheaded round-ball brethren in the other league. Let’s hope that this situation is the exception and does not become the norm.

Destah Owens is a single father of two from Northern California and proud UCLA Bruin who travels the world for his job as a computer engineer. His blog “Souffles in Saigon” is exclusive to Urban Thought Collective.


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July 28th, 2008 at 10:04 pm SweetSis says:

First :)

July 28th, 2008 at 10:13 pm SweetSis says:

How did I not hear about this? I’m about to watch all the linked videos. Sound SCANdulous!

July 28th, 2008 at 10:16 pm kamalp says:

I hear u but I didn’t u enjoy it a lil bit dawg?

July 28th, 2008 at 10:17 pm kamalp says:

Did you see Candace Parker @ ESPYS. I be feelin her on the court but in that evening gown with all the shoulder muscles on full tilt display i was scurred she’d reach thru the TV n’whup my ass! LMBBAO!

July 28th, 2008 at 10:32 pm Jane Kennedy says:

It was a real mess. But I disagree Mr Owens. I think Jemele Hill was correct in her article. Real equality is when you see it as athletes getting emotional in battle, the same way with men. It is no more of less disgraceful than when the men do it. Why do you honestly think so? You say it reminded you of the big Artest led melee. So what?? In one breath you say you don’t mind women getting sweaty in their job and that you respect them in their pure b-ball artform. Then you say why aren’t women more gentle, yet emboldened by “their” music by inspirational, non-”harsh” folks like Queen Latifah, Still sexist. I’m all classy woman, but I know most Tupac, Biggie, Mob Deep and WuTang albums by heart than even a couple of songs by those girls. Come on. I suggest you read the article and again and rethink your position. Perhaps having a daughter requires that you keep that idea of female innocence in your head. I understand.

July 28th, 2008 at 11:39 pm MY ADIDAS says:

I LIKE THE GIRLS GETTING DOWN TOUGH FOR THEIRS DIDN’T SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH IT ITS ABOUT YOUR TEAM DAWG FIRST THEN FOREMOST TOO AND THEY WENT AFTER THEIR OWN SPARKS HAD TO GET WIT EM

July 29th, 2008 at 8:16 am CeaseNYC says:

I’ma roll with Jemele’s article too, bruh. Equal opportunity knocks. And frankly a little passion and drama might help the sport and these women who get under attention in a twisted way. If it helps their household and pocketbooks with more viewers turning in to see the passion then can’t be all bad.

July 29th, 2008 at 9:48 am superjonsey1 says:

Violence is never the answer.

July 29th, 2008 at 10:30 am Elsa Harkins says:

Ok Cease you takin words out my mouth

July 29th, 2008 at 10:32 am Tina says:

I wish it didn’t have to be a violent incident but it does seem that the sport has gotten more attention the last few days because of what happened. As they say there is no such thing as bad press.

July 29th, 2008 at 10:35 am pmatters says:

I agree with you Destah it is a shame that this is the example they set. There is enough violence everyday just getting from home to school or work. Now a days our girls need to see more than just coming to blows to resolve a situation.

July 29th, 2008 at 10:48 am Ashley says:

I still love WNBA regardless.

July 29th, 2008 at 12:37 pm Destah Owens says:

Good comments all!
@ Jane Kennedy- i too agree with Jemele. As writers (Jemele being a real one and me just practicing) our struggle is to convey what we are trying to say in words. I guess I’ve fallen a bit short. My point is that I had to read it again because my first impression left me questioning what she was trying to say (kind of like you are doing to my opinion here :-) ). I’m all for passion and emboldening one’s self, but not about disrespecting the craft. I’m not a fan of Artest either. That behavior takes away from the game. I too listen to Pac, Biggie, Mob Deep, et al, but there is no illusion that i’m “cockin’ a glock” or “poppin’ bottles with models” because I know who I am, and not compelled to act out something I hear in lyrics or see on videos. I’m just hoping that the sistahs do it better than brothas have because the NBA is in a sad state these days.
@Cease- i disagree that it will help pocketbooks though because Madison Avenue is not puttin’ up dollars to see violence on the court.

July 30th, 2008 at 8:34 am Ginger says:

I’m with Destah – Let’s step up the classy. C’mon ladies we are better than that

July 30th, 2008 at 9:23 am Nu yawk says:

wnba has been around for years and they can’t get no shine. something like this happens and its all over the news. i think even thought its bad to fight they got some media attention and not just one the back page of the sports section

July 30th, 2008 at 10:07 am Puff Dragon says:

maybe the ladies arent better than that — its sport — battle!!!!

July 30th, 2008 at 10:51 am Phillip Giggings says:

Of course fighting isn’t condoned behavior. But, its obvious that all teamates have to be there for each other, and even though it got out of hand – its what any athlete would do in that situation

July 30th, 2008 at 11:52 am thelma says:

I couldn’t believe seeing that big man push Lisa Leslie! That was over the top I don’t care what the circumstance

July 30th, 2008 at 11:56 am culturepop says:

Let em play and use it to teach the kids sportsmanship and control lessons, that’s what I say. I’m going to check out that ESPN article and see what’s what!

July 30th, 2008 at 3:32 pm heatmizer says:

I’m with Jane!

August 2nd, 2008 at 12:39 pm African Cowboy says:

Well said brotha. Good hearing from you and lets hope that women’s basketball does not descend into the exhibition of thuggery that man’s basketball occasionally becomes when two grown men disagree. As a former teacher I’ve seen the police brought to junior high schools in South LA for way less hitting than I have seen in the NBA. How can we tell our children to behave properly when they see adults (their idols nonetheless) behaving like “children”.

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