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Black Mama, White Mama

As I watched the national news last week, there was a major story out of Gloucester, Massachusetts concerning seventeen white girls at Gloucester High School who are all pregnant at the same time. This number is more than four times the number of pregnancies that the school (with an enrollment of 1,200) has had in a year. The news media reported that that the pregnancies may have been part of a pact that the girls made with each other in order to raise their children together.

This town and its residents are described as Catholic and blue collar. I sat in amazement as the media spun a tale that portrayed the Gloucester teens as sympathetic victims who may have been caught up in a teen celebrity culture that glorifies pregnancy and identifies with teens such as Jaime Lynn Spears.

I can’t help but feel that if this same situation were being played out in a high school in South Central Los Angeles, Harlem, Detroit, Chicago or in any urban city in America that the media would not have been as friendly. Black teens would have continued to be portrayed as reckless, immoral, and irresponsible. There would have been howls and shouts of “where was the parental responsibility of black parents?” by Fox News reporter Bill O’Reilly, white conservatives and probably even our own Bill Cosby.

I’m not an advocate for anyone to have a child – adult, teen, white, black or otherwise – who is not capable of providing a financially stable and loving home. But because the teens in question were white and not black, I feel there was a racial double standard in how much sympathy they received and how it was reported.

The Gloucester teens are now going to have to face a huge hurdle in life being young mothers. I hope they are successful for their sake, and for the children they will have to raise. Fortunately for them, they escaped the sting and criticism of the media who didn’t barrage them with a string of questions about the morals. For black teens who continue to have early pregnancies, they unfortunately will more than likely continue to receive ridicule by the media, pundits and others about with whom and where their baby’s father is. This is most certainly another racial double standard. And unfortunate one to say the least.

Najee Ali is Executive Director of Project Islamic H.O.P.E, a national civil rights organization that advocates for the human rights of oppressed people regardless of race, gender or religion. He was selected by Wave Newspapers and Our Weekly Newspaper as one of the 25 most influential black leaders in Los Angeles. More information is available at: www.islamichope.org.


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June 30th, 2008 at 12:03 am SweetSis says:

oooo, Ladies First, Ladies First :)

June 30th, 2008 at 12:08 am Red Razor says:

Slow on my roll today SweetSis. But I’ma get ya tomorrow.

June 30th, 2008 at 12:13 am Red Razor says:

I didn’t hear about this - damn. What’d the girls do?

June 30th, 2008 at 12:13 am SweetSis says:

I saw the report on CNN about the article it came from (either Time or Newsweek) and they had on the writer of the article who was a younger white woman reporter and she made it sound so sad and tragic that these girls had no other choice but to do what they did. I was like huh? For real? Thought it was a joke.

June 30th, 2008 at 12:30 am SweetSis says:

Heres the lowdown Razor:
http://ap.google.com/article/ALeqM5g798CHaazwkE1E0TMQv8AZ60Bj1wD91E5BL02
And boy dont try to come after me. I STAY first! LOL!

June 30th, 2008 at 1:09 am Binta Rohan says:

Didn’t it turn out they didnt make a pact? Or said they didnt? Doesnt matter. Your point is on the media covearge and it was skewed definitely.

June 30th, 2008 at 1:47 am Bam Saldana says:

Binta: It turned out the girls didn’t make a pact; They were just hoin’.

June 30th, 2008 at 3:28 am kamalp says:

that pact sh*t was the dumbest dumbass sh*t i eva heard of.

June 30th, 2008 at 8:21 am superjonsey1 says:

I agree with you Brother Najee when I saw this on the news I couldn’t believe how they where playing it out. This was a reckless pack on the part of the teenagers.

June 30th, 2008 at 10:45 am Destah Owens says:

i also thought it was interesting how they were trying to nail the prinicipal to the wall as if he failed the kids. Like Najee is suggesting, I suspect that the whole thing would’ve been played out differently in an urban city. I never cease to be amazed at how we are portrayed.

June 30th, 2008 at 11:49 am pmatters says:

I hadn’t heard about this. It sounds crazy!

June 30th, 2008 at 12:00 pm Kiss The Skyee says:

I heard about this — dumb white girls if you ask me

June 30th, 2008 at 12:23 pm Najee Ali says:

@ Kiss The Skyee… yep I feel you I was trying to be nice and not say that but all young people make mistakes. But damn that %#%& was just dumb !

June 30th, 2008 at 12:47 pm Lottie Markus says:

You’re right. The girls were rarely referred to as reckless, when that is EXACTLY what they are.

June 30th, 2008 at 12:54 pm Kettle Blk says:

Really great point, ITS so often that we sometimes don’t even notice it - that’s what UTC is for LOL

June 30th, 2008 at 1:35 pm chica22 says:

I saw an article online from one of the New York papers in the gossip section pitting Jamie Lynn Spears against the Glouchester teens like a Celebrity Death Match. Sometimes our society is so wrapped its unbelievable to me.

June 30th, 2008 at 1:46 pm Byron Black says:

The Fact That Big Media Spun This Into A Sympathy Story Is In Line With Everything They Have Always Done. Yeah OReilly Would Have Had A Field Day If These Girls Were Black. We Must Remember That Their Media Is Not Our Media, And Therefore I Have No Expecttaions Of Them Doing Right By Us.

June 30th, 2008 at 4:26 pm thelma says:

Black or White - our society is too advanced to have a teen pregnacy problem

June 30th, 2008 at 5:14 pm buttabrown says:

This was just crazy… My friends and I can’t even decide on where to go for dinner, much less agree on raising our children together! And we grown! Hello… where are your parents???

June 30th, 2008 at 5:20 pm culturepop says:

Right again Mr. Ali… I don’t think this will ever change, that is why our image overseas is so bad. But we need to do our part to dispel the myths instead of being as bad as they say sometimes

June 30th, 2008 at 6:14 pm Nubian CoCo says:

Bringing a child into the world is no laughing matter. This is serious. Now there are 17 more unearned privlege white kids gonna be running around. Great… LMBAO

June 30th, 2008 at 6:59 pm Tina says:

Sometimes I feel like kids are losing their minds. Whether a pack or not how can all these young women be getting pregnant at the same time?

June 30th, 2008 at 6:59 pm Bayee Bubba says:

We can’t look to the media to tell our story

June 30th, 2008 at 9:02 pm rene perez says:

LMAO @ Bam

July 1st, 2008 at 8:14 pm Brown Sugar says:

You asked why I haven’t written any comments, well here it is. The Media as usual jumped to conclusion on this whole matter . These girls did not sign a pact. They were interviewed last Friday on 20/20 the truth is that some of these didn’t even know each other. It was a circumstancial situation that they were all pregnant at the same time. We need to look at what’s going on in society today and in our community with these young girls getting pregnant at 12,13 or 14 years old. I see them everyday with babies already and more on the way. Nobody is saying a thing. The way they dress they look like they are 30 years old and very permissive. They are not thinking about their education, it’s about how cute I am and hanging out in the streets and the clubs. They have nothing positive going on, if you talk to them all they want to do is cuss you out for getting their business. It doesn’t help any either when Men keep disrepecting women and a woman needs to feel that she will do anything just to have a man around. Things need to change especially in our own community to take self pride and help each other, not pull each down all the time.

We are getting ready to have a
Black President a dream nobody thought would ever happen. It’s time for our people to start standing up with dignity and respect for each other.

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